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Thursday, May 28, 2015
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Calley Constance - Syracuse NY posted a condolence
Friday, November 21, 2014
Hi mom just wanted to let you know I MISS YOU SO MUCH! I'm always always thinking about you. I like to think that wherever you may be you're thinking of me too:) I miss having a person. Just like on our favorite TV show Greys Anatomy, Meredith had her person, someone who understood her better than anyone. You were my person mom. One of my favorite things was how we could just sit next to each other without speaking at all and how I just felt so safe and so understood. We just got each other. I'd like to think that you were right when you'd say how much like you I was. I only hope I can become someone as caring and amazing as you were. Sometimes I get so sad about losing you. But then I remember your rule and how mad/upset it would make you that I spend as much time as I do being sad about it and I stop myself and try my best to enjoy my life because I know that's what you would want me to do. I just hope someway somehow I will be able to see you again because doing life without you really really sucks:( But just because you're not here physically doesn't mean we aren't together. I don't think a love like that can be broken by death. It goes beyond that, its eternal.
I love you always mom,
Calley❤ (Occasionally known as pumpkin :))
PS: I know you love me bunches too and that I need to do my homework sooner and start attending ALL of my college classes and stop obsessing over my looks because I AM PRETTY!(you never forgot to remind me!)and that YES someday an amazing guy will start to remind me too! and NO I will not die alone because I AM lovable and worth it and that I need to be easier on myself sometimes but also know when to stop feeling sorry for myself and being LAZY!(Because we both know I am) and yes I know I should try to go to graduate school because I can't settle for less than I'm capable of:) Don't worry I know all this! & I promise you I won't forget❤
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Lauren Wojciechowski - St. Pete, Florida posted a condolence
Sunday, March 23, 2014
Wendy,
I'm writing this here in hopes that it can bring me some sort of comfort. I need to finally say something, albeit over a year and a half later. I remember so many things about us, about you. I remember your babies being born, I remember looking up to you, being excited about coming home from whatever state I was in on weekends, seeing how much my father loved you, anything. I also remember when I realized how much I love you, and how much I always will love you. I don't think you ever realized how much you meant to me, how much your love for my father meant to me.
I spent so much time worrying the 9 months we had with you that I hardly had enough to say. I wanted to seem "put together" because it is the only way I could get through everything. I remember sitting with you in the living room and not knowing what to say, mostly because of how scared I was. I was scared for you, for my father, your children, how would we deal with this? What can you say in times like these?
I had two pages of text that I wanted to say at your funeral. I had things I wanted to say about life, love, death, lessons, pain, joy. I deleted it the night before because I was too scared it wasn't worth saying, that it wasn't good enough to say. I really regret that now. I wanted to tell everyone what you taught me, and what they should remember. Only feel bad for yourself 15 minutes a day, nobody ever died wishing they had worked more, "it's just a car", save up for a rainy day, enjoy the simple things, squeeze the juice out of life, and live deeply.
I was terrified that after your death, I would fall into another place that wasn't happy. I was so happy about the life you had made with my father, how much you changed him. How much you made my family feel "whole" again, how much joy you brought to our lives. I was afraid this would all go away, I was afraid to lose you.
I want you to know that your brightness hasn't gone away, I remember you now in the simple, beautiful things. Sunsets, flowers, butterflies, snow, smiles, good food, a cool breeze, a good laugh, a new friend...these things are all you. I know if it wasn't for you I wouldn't have had the passion I now have for life, because I finally get what it's all about. I want to thank you for teaching me this at a young age, and setting me up for such a wonderful and vibrant life. I want to say "thank you" for making me realize that the worst that can happen really probably isn't that bad, and to never take things for granted. Our happiness is completely within reach, no matter the circumstance.
I was so worried you wouldn't be around for the big things in life (mostly your children, my father). I now know that although you can't be physically present, we can carry on your energy by living with the same vivacity that you would have brought to the table.
So Wendy, wherever you are, I hope you are having an amazing time. I'm having a wonderful time here for you, and I hope to see you again someday. Thank you for your courage, bravery, and selflessness in a time you were facing your own mortality. Thank you for showing us there is beauty, even in dark places. I promise to always save a smile, be kind, and keep going.
Here is a quote that can hopefully help anyone who reads here anymore:
A man shared the story of his grandmother, who, in her late seventies, was very ill. I was having so much trouble letting her go, he explained. I finally got up the courage to say to her, Nana, I dont think I can let you go. I know that sounds selfish, but its what I felt.
My dear one, she replied, I am complete, my life has been full and whole. I know you must see me not being full of much life anymore, but I assure you I have brought much life to my journey. We are like a pie: we give a piece to our parents, we give a piece to our loves, we give a piece to our children, and we give a piece to our careers. At the end of life, some people have not saved a piece for themselves and dont even know what kind of pie they were. I know what kind of pie I am; this is something we find for ourselves. I can leave this life knowing who I am.When I heard those words, I know now who I am, I could let her go. That did it for me. It sounded so complete. I told her when it was my time to die, I hoped I would be like her and know who I am. She leaned forward, as if to tell me a secret, and said, You dont have to wait until you are dying to find out what kind of pie you are.
Reminds me of you Wendy, I have a feeling you knew what kind of pie you were.
Forever yours,
Lauren
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Stanley Wojciechowski - Baldwinsville posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Goodbye my beautiful. I miss our love every minute of every day. Your soft skin, your sweet voice, your gorgeous green eyes! You were the best wife a man could have asked for. I promise to do my best for Calley and Ryan. My Dolly! My Bride! Our time together as a couple were the best years of my life. Thank You.
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Velma & Ross Bogenschutz - Cape Vincent, New York posted a condolence
Thursday, September 27, 2012
To the family of Wendy. Know how much we love and enjoy the whole family and please know our prayers and sympathy go out to you all. Wendy was a wonderful person and a joy to know. She was loved by many and will be missed. I am sure she is your angel in heaven with her dad and knowing Wendy, she is "looking out after all you". RIP Wendy. we love you. Velma and Ross
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Trisha (Cook) St. Germain - East Syracuse, NY posted a condolence
Monday, September 24, 2012
My heart goes out to all of Wendy's family. She had such a sweet personality and was full of sunshine. Her love for all of you was evident in her life, and her smile was so beautiful! I will do my best to honor her example by smiling more and by being compassionate to others. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Jean Smiley - Baldwinsville posted a condolence
Sunday, September 9, 2012
Stan, I was so sorry to read about the passing of your wife. May your friends and family comfort you during this very difficult time.
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deborah pichette - United States posted a condolence
Saturday, September 8, 2012
Stan so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Debbie Pichette(Van Duyn)
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Skaneateles Figure Skating Club - Skaneateles, NY posted a condolence
Saturday, September 8, 2012
Stan, Calley, Ryan,
Please accept our deepest sympathy.
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Joanne Hirshfield - Utica, NY posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
Dear Stanley,
So very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
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Diane, Ernie,Ryan and Caleb Pyle - Baldwinsville, NY posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
Stan, Ryan & Calley,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please let us know.
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Margaret P. - Liverpool posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
Dear Stan,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Margaret P.
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Margaret P. - Liverpool posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
Dear Stan,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Margaret P.
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Margaret P. - Liverpool posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
Dear Stan,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Margaret P.
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Margaret P. - Liverpool posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
Dear Stan,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Margaret P.
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Yvette Girard - Florida posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
Wendy and her family lived next door to our family for as long as I can remember. Most of my childhood summer memories have her or another member of the Lipp family in them. Whether it was playing badminton,pool hopping between our pool and the Lipp's, trips to Darien Lake..Wendy was there smiling.
To the Wojciechowski and Lipp families, my deepest sympathy and love to you all.
Yvette Girard
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Dianne McLean - Baldwinsville posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan, Calley and Ryan,
Please accept our deepest sympathy during this incredibly difficult time. Wendy was a wonderful friend to many and we will always remember her beautiful smile and happy nature. She is now and forever your angel, always looking down on each of you! May all of the wonderful memories remain in your hearts and help you in the days ahead.
Dianne and Marissa McLean
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Alison Reber - Fulton,NY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan,
I am so sorry for yours and your family's
loss. You are all in my prayers
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Lysander Youth Hockey - Baldwinsville, NY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan, Ryan and Calley,
We are so sorry for your loss. Wendy was a wonderful part of our community and will be greatly missed by all.
Lysander Youth Hockey
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Linda and Bob Bacon - Boston, NY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Sharon, Robert, Kenny and families,
We are so sorry to hear about Wendy. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. I'm sure she's with Ron and he's taking good care of her.
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Tisha Sweeney - Baldwinsville, NY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan, Ryan & Calley, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Wendy was such a beautiful, sweet, caring person. Everyone who knew her will miss her terribly. Hold tight to your memories...and know that even though she isn't here physically, she will always be with you. We are so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, The Sweeney Family (Tisha, Gregg, Natalie, Shane & Quinn)
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John Demske - Batavia, NY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan, my deepest sympathies in the loss of your wife Wendy. My prayers are with you and your family during this sad and emotional time. Your friend John
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Fred Ungar - Airville, PA posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Calley & Ryan,
Although I never had the honor and privilege to meet your Mom I do have the honor of knowing her two wonderful children. My heartfelt condolences to both of you on the loss of your loving Mom. May she now rest in peace and know that her memory will be with each of you for an eternity.
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Jake & Lorraine Descutner - Abingdon, Va. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan, so very saddened to hear of Wendy's passing. You both are in our prayers and in our hearts.
Lorraine & Jake
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Cyndy Schuessler - Chittenango posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan,
On behalf of Centers for Specialty Care I would like to extend our condolences to you and your family for your tragic loss. May your precious memories of your lives together help you through this heartbreaking time. Our thoughts and prayers are sincerely with you all.
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The Sather's - Baldwinsville, Ny posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Caley -Our thoughts and sympothy to you and your family.
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Syracuse Crunch Hockey Club - Syracuse posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
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Claire Rutherford - Baldwinsville posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan,
I am so sorry for the loss of your
beautiful, Wendy. May all the memories
sustain you and the family during this
time of sorrow.
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Bob Przybylak - Erie, Pa. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan, Very sorry to hear of the loss of your wife. Please know that you and your family will continue to be in my prayers.God Bless. Bob P.
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Jan Furrow - Syracuse, NY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
I am so saddened to hear of the death of such a wonderful, beautiful person - I first met and worked with Wendy at NY Heart and have had the occasion to see her at Cardiology PC. I know she was beloved by her fellow co-workers - especially Mitch and Randy and will be terribly missed by everyone who knew her. She was a kind, beautiful person and will always be in our thoughts and prayers - My deepest sympathy to her family and friends
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Dulce Fernandez - Syracuse posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Dear Stan,
I am overwhelmed with sorrow for your loss.
You were both so fortunate to have found each other in this life. Hopefully the wonderful memories will be forever present in your life. Love, Dulce
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Dave Hardwich - Tucson, AZ posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan, I'm very sorry to learn of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.
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Carolyn Backes - Syracuse, NY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan; I am so very sorry for ypur loss. I remember how happy you were when you talked about Wendy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carolyn
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Jennie Junta Sharpe - Liverpool posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Although I only got to work with you for a short time, it was enough for me to see what a wonderful and beautiful person you were both inside and out. I am privileged to have known you Wendy. Rest in peace.
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Maureen Murphy - Manlius posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Stan, I was so sorry to hear of Wendy's passing. I will keep you and the family in my thoughts and prayers. I hope the wonderful memories you have help to cary you through this tough time.
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Cecil Brown - Buffalo, NY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Dear Stan: I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved Wendy.
Cecil
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mary dorsey - syracuse posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
stan was sorry to hear of your loss...my thoughts and prayers are with you...
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Karen Fabrizio - Skaneateles posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Please know that we will carry each of you in our thoughts and prayers.
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Pete Moylan - Denver Co posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Stan
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Grieve with hope knowing that God will comfort you. Cherish your memories of Wendy as she is cherishing memories of you.
Peace and Blessings
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Carlos Clavijo - New York posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Wendy, you will truly be missed. I remember the first time we met in our little nuclear lab and the rest was history. I will never forget you. You left us too soon yet now you may rest without tears or pain. My thoughts are with you and your family as you will be cherished forever. Take care of us Wendy as we will need your wonderful shine as it casts above us. Love you Wendy. Thoughts to your family.
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Sandy - Radcliffe-Mckeon posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Wendy's beautiful photo brings back memories of a kind, spirited soul. A friend of Anne and Rick, we met. Marriage,babies, life. Through Anne we kept in touch, in a distance way. My heartfelt sympathy extends to her beloved family and circle of friends. May you have peace in the times to come, Wendy will always be with you.
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